savage25 | Don't prejudge me...

I hate when people prejudge me... good or bad... Like when someone says "You're going to be hungover Sunday because you are going to a party Saturday" -- it's just as bad as someone saying "Oh, you're going to be great in the show because you always are"... I don't know why but they both cause me to cringe. Obviously the "positive prejudging" is easier to swallow and a nice thing to hear. But the "negative prejudging" just makes me furious. I'm a different person every time I make a decision... I'm not predictable... and people who think I'm predictable are usually confused and upset when I do things they don't expect... but you know what... that's me... that's who I am... I do things predictably until I don't do them that way...

I read this in a description of INFPs that I found very interesting (and accurate about me)... "This trait sometimes makes them appear irrational and illogical in conflict situations." I may appear irrational and illogical, but that's just because others can't see or feel the rational or logic that I'm using.

Anyway... just wanted to vent a little... feeling a bit confronted and confused and prejudged.